We like to talk in generalities. They are safe because we don’t have to work at it and it typically doesn’t come up against much opposition.
It seems like generalization keeps us off the hook.
But getting specific is where you find the gold.
It helps everything.
What exactly do you want?
What specifically upset you?
What exactly are you trying to say?
Once you determine what that is, you can move ahead accordingly.
Until then you have just found another way to hide.