We are all in this life together and none of us are getting out of here alive.
I think on some level we all know that, and I also think there are lots of people who undoubtedly know it and want to help each other.
I’m one of those people.
I looove to help.
I can see that I have wanted to help others so bad that I attached my self worth to it. When I felt like I had helped someone I would feel really important.
I took on some really big “projects”, I was going to help people who didn’t want help or even think they needed it. But I was so smart, I could see where they needed help.
It seems so ridiculous when I look at it now…
We don’t get to decide who needs help and who doesn’t. Many times what we think we see as someone else’s problem, is not a problem for them, it is simply reflecting something inside of us, and that’s where we need to focus, “what is this trying to teach me about myself?”
I can not ever know for sure what someone else’s issue is. You couldn’t have told me this a couple of years ago and have me believe it, I would have said I knew it because of my intuition. The second my ego gets involved thinking it knows the way, intuitively or not, I’m not helping anymore. At that point I’ve switched into stroking my ego.
We are never the person who single handedly helps someone. It still takes a village, even after we have grown up, and a certain amount of divine intervention.
None of us are getting out of here alive, but I have learned to honour each persons journey individually, including my own.
We haven’t come this far to only come this far. We will grow and evolve in our own way on our own time, on our own path. And that is a beautiful thing.