You are probably attached to your identity. You also probably don’t even realize it.
Who you think you are, and who you think you aren’t, will shape all of your experiences.
But you can change, and the odds are you have already changed.
But if you don’t begin to identify with the new and changed you – you will keep striving without realizing you are already “there”.
Once you realize you are “there”, you can refine. You can always go deeper in your understanding and move into mastery.
But if you don’t begin to identify with it – you will be chasing it forever, and sabotaging all of the work you’ve done.
And when you are chasing it, you don’t embody it.
Claim the person you have worked so hard to become.