You do get there.
After all of the work, all of the untangling, and a lot of tears, you come to a place where you feel at peace inside.
And when you get to that place, you make decisions about life that are in alignment with your true self.
The knee jerk reactions that you regret slip away.
The sleepless nights worrying about the future are in your past.
The anxiety that used to keep you awake at night is replaced with a deep peace that things are as they should be.
And when things fall apart you realize it’s not your fault and it’s not about you. You know where you want to go and you trust the process of getting there.
It may not be an easy journey, in fact sometimes it’s downright hard.
But you do get there, and once you do you are free to create the life you want.