I remember thinking things would change. I spent my time believing and hoping for a new outcome or a change of pace.
I hoped that things would be different almost all of the time.
It took me a really really really long time to figure out that things weren’t going to change.
And to be honest, I’m not actually sure I ever did figure that out.
But here’s the thing. Things can’t change is we don’t change them. We have to make a change in order for things to change.
Sitting around hoping things will change or be different doesn’t work.
You have to break the pattern.
You have to make a change.
And then, and only then, will you get the change you were hoping for.