You’ve got to take them with you.
When you are growing, changing, expanding, creating, healing, or learning… it is better if you don’t keep it a secret from the people closest to you.
Your energy changes, and the energy builds as you go. You want to keep everyone that matters in the energy with you.
I’ve left people in the dust several times before out of my own insecurities. I didn’t want to be shut down or talked out of something before I knew what it was. So I didn’t share.
It creates a separation between you and the other person.
If you don’t want to share, then its worth exploring the reasons why. You will likely find a small gold mine of information about yourself and your relationship.
Its always better to keep the energy congruent.