It doesn’t matter how badly you were treated….
It doesn’t matter how many times they’ve wronged you….
It doesn’t matter how much they stole from you, what they said to you, or how badly they betrayed you…
It doesn’t matter what that person did to you, you are the one who is responsible for how you feel.
And how you feel about them, and what they did to you will affect you in so ,many more ways than you can imagine.
I have felt hate. It’s not pretty.
I have felt blame. It’s also not pretty.
But I have learned that what that person did “to me” was not about me. It was about who they were.
You can always love someone’s spirit, but you don’t have to love their choices.
What they choose is really none of your business. It’s who they choose to be in this world. It’s not about you.
How you feel and how you show up is about you.
The more love you can find, the better you’ll be.
Can you love someone who’s done you wrong?
I think you can. And it’s better for you if you do.