Our ego likes to think we are different. It works overtime to separate us from the pack.
It doesn’t think you can be the same as others because you are special.
Your situation is special.
It’s harder for you because ….
It won’t work because….
You can’t because…
And you string a long story about why you are an exception to the rule.
Just for today, double check those assumptions.
You are just as capable and just as worthy as anyone else. And it’s likely your situation isn’t all that special.
If you stop making yourself different, you can usually start finding solutions.