Just for today let’s take stock of what is working in our life, and what isn’t.
I used to think I had to work hard to make everything work. I would try to force the things that didn’t fit, and I would often feel roadblocked and helpless.
I didn’t know that sometimes things just didn’t fit together in my life puzzle.
I always thought I was the problem and that I wasn’t enough. I always thought if I tried harder, or changed, or was better that things would work out.
But the truth is, sometimes the pieces just don’t fit.
Just for today, let’s look at our lives and see if we have any puzzle pieces that don’t belong but we keep trying to make them fit because we think we are the problem, we don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings, or because we don’t know how to say a goodbye.
And maybe tomorrow we can try to figure out how to replace them with a piece that fits better.