Wouldn’t it be nice if we could find the answers to our most pressing questions outside ourself?
Wouldn’t it be great if there was a handbook we could follow that told us how to do hard things?
I’ve been looking for one.
I have asked… What is it I’m missing? Where do I go from here? What is the next step? How do I get to where I want to be from where I am? How do I not lose what I have along the way?
I have read books looking for direction.
I have asked people I trust.
I have paid professionals to guide me.
The problem is…I want to find the way, that nobody else seems to understand, I don’t want to sacrifice, I want to build.
I have a vision in my head of where I’m going and don’t know the steps to take in order to get there.
Deep down I know I have to become the person who can find a new path even though all I can see is a dead end.
I have learned that in order to grow, we have to explore options we didn’t consider before.
And certainly before we can know what we want…we have to know what we don’t want.
Nobody else can know this but me.
If you are also looking for the map, I’m glad you’re looking… it’s better than being stuck.
Keep searching…
Keep asking…
Keep exploring…
Keep seeking out the dead ends…
Until one day, you find the answer within yourself.
(Then let me know how you did it?)