You always have a choice between resistance and acceptance.
You can resist what is happening in your life, or you can choose to accept it and see the silver lining.
When you resist it, you are likely to feel angry and bitter. What you resist pushes against you. It keeps you awake at night and on edge all day.
When you accept it, and align yourself with it, you open the door for change and possibility. Acceptance means you are willing to see what happens.
You can choose which ever one you want.
But you are likely to be more pleased with the magical outcomes that acceptance brings.