If you aren’t part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
These words have been my theme for this year. My life has been mangled and messy for the last several years and I was being drug down for problems I didn’t create. I had become the escape goat. I knew it and I assumed others would figure it out and it would rectify.
But others weren’t figuring it out. One day I realized that standing back, waiting for others was making me part of the problem because I wasn’t doing anything about it.
Being part of the solution doesn’t mean becoming a doormat, sacrificing yourself, or accommodating bad behaviour, although others who are angry will try to convince you it does.
It’s not always easy to figure out what the solution is. When love is too far out of reach choose to see each other, care for each other, and focus on the humans, not the objects. But if you believe in love… it is the best solution and it always wins