You. Get to know yourself. Become aware of your feelings, the reasons you respond the way you do, and why you have made the decisions you’ve made.
Awareness of who you are and why you do what you doesn’t change you, it makes you better.
Awareness allows you to take charge of your life. You can make decisions with intention, you can choose more of what lines up with your values, and you can walk away from things that don’t.
The best part of a deep self awareness is the peace it brings you. The heavy burden of shame over your inadequacies and quirks lifts as you learn the interconnection between them and your strengths, and you begin to find humour in your knee jerk reactions.
We all enjoy someone who can laugh at themselves because they don’t take life so seriously.
The best thing you can do is to get to know yourself better, it will reward you in more ways than you can imagine.