If we knew we were going to be automatically accepted everywhere, would it be easier to include others?
Do we stand back waiting for an invitation because we don’t feel included, not realizing the other guy probably didn’t invite you because he didn’t feel included either?
Who gets to decide who is included or not?
I think you decide.
Include yourself.
Grab the hand of another person on the outside looking in and take them along.
Dive in, learn the rules, lend a helping hand.
Who is going to stop you?