You can do all of the things.
You can be healthy, show up, build a business, contribute to society, be a parent, be a spouse, be a friend, have a hobby, and a job.
You can totally do it all.
But you can’t do it all and hide from the world under your safety blanket.
You can’t numb yourself, you can’t compromise, you can’t sabotage, and you can’t quit.
You might get a little uncomfortable, and you might have to learn to Dance with fear.
You will need to be efficient and you will probably be tired sometimes, but you will also be on fire. And it’s worth it.
You can do all of the things, but you have to decide that you aren’t going to allow yourself to be derailed in the process.
I know it because I’m doing it.